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These are all ways to try and impress her with your personality in advance of asking her out (setting yourself up). The problem is that only one, or maybe even none, of these is the one and that she's looking for in a guy.

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Dating Black Girls Secrets:

Dear Derek,

Thank you for your encouraging words from your last reply. I’ve already made the decision to do whatever it takes to dating black girls and I’m really looking forward to the point where I can just walk up to a woman naturally in any situation with no limiting beliefs.

But this is just a small part of the ‘big picture’ what I mean by this is the:
‘structure of seduction’ This is what I want to ask you about today. Now, I’ve gone through your Vol 3 of Seduction Science, and what really impresses me is the structure, flow of words, and personality demonstration you use to seduce the woman. What I want to do is the same thing but ‘face to face’ in any situation rather than online. I’ve tried to develop a structure to do this in ‘particular’ situations and I would greatly appreciate your opinions to modify it for dating black girls. OK here it is:

Street/ clothes shop environment

1)Opener: a complement, or general curiosity question to perk her curiosity
e.g “Excuse me, I just noticed you have a really lovely energy when you walked past… you must be a good dancer….is that true?”

2)Transition to make her feel comfortable: a small statement to inject some humour into the situation e.g “Yeah, I thought so when the whole street just lit up!!”

3)Get her opinion on the topic of the opening statement: e.g the lovely texture of her hair, the nice boots she’s wearing, or the great bar she’s recommended to you.
This gives you some ideas of what she likes.

4)Elaborate on these answers: “You know, the amazing thing how people choose a particular bar is because they feel a connection to it….”

5)Transition to another nice experience: “And this reminds me of when a friend of mine told me about her experience in the …”

6)Throw in a challenge if she’s cute: “Well, I hope your not just smiling to be on TV…there’s a hidden camera behind and lipstick on your teeth!!”

Or: “You know, I just love it when you smile, ‘cos your nose starts to wiggle…cute J !”

7)Mension that with all this standing around she should rest her heels so ask to go to coffee shop. If she refuses, mension how interesting it would be to continue and ask to meet her the next day at a ‘specific’ time. If she accepts OR refuses mension that we should exchange numbers as a fair swop – and she would make a complete difference to the atmosphere in Starbucks!!

8)When your sitting down with her, rerun the ‘comfortable’ experiences again, but use different stories to get the emotions….e.g walking on the beach, feeling the breeze of the sea on her face.

9)Talk about exciting experiences while demonstrating alpha-male characteristics: e.g
Fair ground ride in Hong Kong called the ‘Abyss’ which drops you 300feet like a bungee jump, or the excitement of learning something new…and how this connects with a secret, hidden place inside you where you keep all those thoughts.

10)Talk about excitement in a different context: e.g trying on a new dress…blindfolded…and you just didn’t know what it looked like…and the drama of slowly unravelling the blindfold in front of the mirror….

Or being with a person she really wanted to be with that made her feel secure yet filled her life with adventure

11)Talk about how feeling this excitement makes her surrender to something more powerful while implying sexual connotations: e.g “And feeling this type of excitement building and building reminds me of what happened to Josie, the girl who lives opposite – she told me at a student party of a trip to Italy, where people are so expressive of their thoughts…their desires…and they perfected the art of touching to make each other feel sooo good….it’s a just like a stroke of the hair (stoke her hair)..and the sensual touch of the skin (touch her face) that allows them to just naturally bring those hidden thoughts……

12)Talk about more sexual stories while softly petting and watching for responses of being turned on

13)Plant a kiss on her cheek while talking about how all women love the touch of a powerful, yet meaningful gesture

14)Kiss her on the lips: “And the more you feel the tough and the warmth building…the more it seams so right to feel it on that place as soft as petals (kiss her lips) and ther more it feels so good surrendering to someone new (go for it again)

Ok Derek, this is all of my own development for dating black girls, but I havn’t yet tried all of this in this format, however, am I on the right track here….or is this too deep?
Do you think that I should develop this type of structure for each approach situation?
Could you give me some advice on how to improve it?
e.g throwing in Challenges to knock any bitchiness.
Adding humour
Suggesting transition topics to lead the conversation(and her emotions) in a different direction
Training myself to talk with a seductive structure like in Vol 3 of Seduction Science

Thank you very much for your help again,

Everything you have here as a structure is good. Just dont get into the mindset that you have to use it all on one girl at one time. As long as you practice a lot of this stuff will come naturally... until then, "fake it until you make it" by using various lines that you have here.

This can be a good way to study by writing out a formula. You may want to practice it online as well through instant messenger.

As far as giving you more advice on this, if I gave you more info you would have too many things to say without it being fully installed into your unconscious. Go with this stuff, it's really all you need for dating black girls.

Just keep in mind the whole point of ANY of this is to get RAPPORT.

Regards,

Derek

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